MommaT's picture MommaT

Silly Mommy! Moms are never allowed to go to the restroom alone. It's called Murphy's Law, but it's also a chance for the kidos to learn from mistakes.

Oh how I envy your dinner! We had to throw most of our food out because we lost power for so long. Tonight is veggie and pasta night--I just need to find a way to make it "blend" together. I never would have thought I would miss butter and eggs.

Aliki McElreath's picture Aliki McElreath

I know--silly me, indeed--what WAS I thinking!

I'm sorry about your food rut--I wish I could invite you over for a big bowl of soup!

Omaha Mama's picture Omaha Mama

First of all, it is a beautiful thing that you have a strength-based perspective with regards to your kids' education. I hope others will take your advice on that!

Second, I call her Bad Mom. And she comes out more often than I like to admit. It's always that one straw that breaks the back, huh. I've learned to just admit it to my kids too, with a smile and a hug (later). To let them know that I am human, and teach them how to show me a little grace.

I love your writing here. You have a such a talent.

Aliki McElreath's picture Aliki McElreath

I'm glad I'm not the only one with "bad mom" lurking in the wings. I think you do the perfect thing--be honest about it with your kids and they'll see us as human beings, not wonder-parents! After all, our kids have their own "alter-kids" lurking in the wings too, don't they?

Thanks for the compliment, Omaha...

Aliki McElreath's picture Aliki McElreath

I so agree with you--the best piece of advice I got early on was the importance of apologizing to your kids when you do wrong. They need to know you're human, and they need the apology, too. I know what you mean--I had similar experiences, and I have so come to value the importance of passing this lesson on to our own kids.

Thanks for your comment...