Professor Mom
Keeping the magic alive
We've settled into a strange place with L. and this whole Santa business. He doesn't talk about Santa much, and we haven't revisited the conversation we had that afternoon at the craft store. We continue our traditions and L., for the most part, has been good about keeping a lid on his doubts.
At the dinner table the other night we were talking about Santa, and whether or not he could fulfill Scott's unrealistic Christmas list which, at this point, consists entirely of vintage electronics with long names and strange numbers.
"Santa can't make all that!" I pointed out. "It's too much work!"
"Say," L. began, with a strange look on his face. I shot him a warning glance which he didn't seem to notice. "Isn't it strange how Santa isn't ever affected by changing technology, or the economy, or cost-of-living increases, or dwindling resources?"
Luckily, T. just looked at him blankly for a moment. Then, before Scott and I could answer, she crossed her arms over her chest and gave L. a condescending look.
"It's not strange at all," she said. "Santa is MAGIC."
"Magic people," she added. "Can do anything!"
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Last weekend we continued our tradition of all sitting down and writing our Christmas letters to Santa. I put on our Nat King Cole Christmas music and we had mugs of spiced cider and tried to pretend it was wintry and snowy outside. I wasn't sure what L. would do this year, but when we called him downstairs to tell him we were working on the letters, he came right down and headed into the office to type his up, as he does every year.
For the first time, T. wrote out her own letter! Last year she cut pictures out of catalogs for things she wanted, but this year she wrote her letter all by herself. It was such a sweet, sweet letter, I think and, somehow, the fact that she asks for a pair of tights just melts my heart.
I kind of miss the years L. wrote to Santa asking for things like a glass cockpit, or a $1,000 watch like James Bond's, or some other impossible, extraordinary, wallet-busting, Santa's-workshop-busting thing. His list this year was pretty short and simple, relatively speaking.

(I love the fact that he included the latitude and longitude in Santa's North Pole address)
Maybe simple is good. Maybe my husband could learn a thing or two.
Happy Weekend!










Comments
I love Santa letters! Mason still puts cut out catalog pics on his. We had to tell him that he probably wouldn't get all 10 things he had glued on there! Which, of course, caused tears. I've never been quite sure how to explain why they can't get whatever they want. We usually discuss things about not being selfish and being sure every kids gets something. It's worked so far.
We pretty much stuck to the three things concept this year, which I think has work out nicely. I've been able to make it work and hopefully they will like what they asked for!
I put a letter to Santa that my dad had written some 50 years prior in a scrapbook I made him. My Brenna wondered how in the heck did we get our hands on that?! When it had surely been sent to the north pole. I muttered something about a copy, which seemed to work. This Santa business takes a lot of quick thinking!
It DOES require a lot of quick-thinking--you're so right! I took the letters to be mailed, with the understanding I would copy them first.
I think that's so amazing that you have a copy of a letter your dad wrote from so long ago--what a wonderful keepsake!
E. has been willing to accept that Santa has a dollar limit. He hasn't thought to ask why that's the case. Need to come up with a reason for when he asks.
L. always had a hard time figuring out why Santa needed a dollar limit. He also questioned--and this was the most difficult part for me--why Santa couldn't bring gobs of presents to poor children and make up for their parents' lack of money for a nice Christmas. T. seems to accept that Santa knows how important it is not to be excessive and greedy...
The letter my dad wrote? Yeah, my grandma kept that all these years. It asked for a bb gun (of course) a wrist watch, and a chemistry set. Then we had this great picture of him by the tree with that gun. Great memories! It also made a heck of a scrapbook page. :-)
My gma also had her hospital bill from 1950. Crazy. It was for $60. Insurance picked up most, so I think they had to pay about nine dollars. Wish I'd kept the bills from my kids', we could've compared them. Though that may have just made me cry, so maybe better that I didn't. Some things are best forgotten!
I think I remember my dad telling me something crazy about just how much the hospital bill was when my mom had my brother...amazing to think about relative to today's prices!