FamilyEducation BlogsAugust 31, 2009
Erratic charityAfter Sunday morning worship I was driving down the street, my eyes almost blinded by the sun's brightness. In the distance, I saw silhouettes of three people standing on the corner outside of a mom and pop convenient store. I drove nearer. It was three of my boys. I pulled over. "Hey, what's up?" I asked "What's up T.?" "T, we broke," one of the boys said. That was his way of saying, "The program’s over." "T, you want to be the driver?" (Referring to a drive by shooting) What he meant was, "We're back to what we were doing before." [more] August 28, 2009
I can't hear.When I walked into the café, he was waiting for me. Another lunch meeting. I sat down. The café was busier than usual. Every table was occupied. The line was almost out the door. I had to speak loudly. "We are making a drastic change," I explained, "To a project that we have been working on for about a year. What are your thoughts?" I leaned close to him to hear what he was saying. "I think two things," he said. The door opened, I looked. The rowdy crowd and blaring voices distracted me. I leaned in closer. [more]
August 27, 2009
To Trust a StrangerThe last session with my therapist was especially exhausting . . . and healing. [more]
August 25, 2009
“Say something positive about me at my funeral.”This is the last week of our summer program. I asked the boys how they felt about the program ending. They sat silently with their heads hung low. [more]
August 21, 2009
"Don’t ever say that we don’t care."In response to a remark made by one of the boys, a staff member, her voice filled with emotion, said, "You can call us rats, snitches, cops, informants, or even federal agents, but don't ever say that we don't care."
August 20, 2009
“You calling me a liar?!”I walked into the room angry because six of the boys did not come back to work after cashing their checks the other day. Now they were back. I sat in a chair outside their semi-circle. A few of the boys tried to talk to me but I ignored them. "She’s mad," one of the boys said under his breath. I was glad they could see that I was upset. In my head I was fussing, "Why do I continue to do this?" [more]
August 18, 2009
When in doubt, throw it out.I am unsure of what to write about today. I wrote a sentence, and then momentarily deleted it: "My surroundings have been spinning like I am in a tornado." The spinning is of my own making. [more]
August 14, 2009
As my vacation ends...I’ve been on vacation from work all week. It’s rare that I find the time to be alone. This week I thought about . . . [more]
August 14, 2009
The Brady BunchWho could forget "The Brady Bunch," season four, episode 18?
But do you remember NFL season 2007, episode 18-0?
August 12, 2009
Suspicion . . .The boys were very suspicious today. I am not sure what happened. They had many questions, all of which I have answered many times before. One of the boys assumed I was a federal agent, because otherwise he couldn’t understand why I would take them out to dinner and give them a job. "She must be working for the feds." [more] |






