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July 2009 Archive

July 29, 2009

My Superhero

Last night I dreamed about my grandmother.

She stood in a courtroom, wearing the white hospital gown that she wore on her sickbed. Although still weak in body, her eyes were strong and powerful. On a bench sat my two sisters, my little brother, two cousins, and me. She turned toward us. She said, "Your honor, I’ll take them." [more]

July 28, 2009

Again, between two worlds . . .

An unmarked police cruiser waited for me in the church parking lot.

Two officers walked toward me. I knew them. We worked together.

Still, this was unexpected. [more]

July 27, 2009

I choose . . .

"Sure, I know there are two ways," Greg said. "But I decide the kind of life I live. I choose."

He spoke as wisely as William Julius Wilson, as distinguished as Delbert S. Elliott. Both contributed to the book Good Kids from Bad Neighborhoods, a study which demonstrates that young people choose a lifestyle based on the availability of youth development opportunities. [more]

July 22, 2009

The Gang’s All Here

I sat in a chair like a school teacher in an empty classroom.
But instead of students, it was my boys I waited for.
"It’s ten minutes to two, where are they?”
I watched the door and the clock. [more]

July 21, 2009

Covenant Sisters

She reminded me of a hippie from the sixties, arrived in the early 1990s. When I was wearing blue jean shorts with Timberland boots and no socks, she wore plaid bell bottom pants and platform shoes. How do opposites as obvious as us become alike? [more]

July 17, 2009

The Funeral

The choir sang words that echoed those that my grandmother often shared, "My body got tired. I got to find a resting place. Every day is going to be Sunday, no more tears."

I viewed my grandmother’s body from the back of the church. The bind that held our family together was undone and laid to rest in a casket. What did that mean for my family? [more]

July 13, 2009

Let's make her comfortable...

My grandmother was rushed to the hospital. Again. This time to the intensive care unit. [more]

July 9, 2009

Aching….

A sharp pain pierced me. It traveled down my back, through my hip, to my knee.

I held my knee. I rubbed it.

Even with all the agony that has been aching my body, I couldn't remember the last time I knelt on my knees to tell God about it. [more]

July 7, 2009

Every 13 minutes….

I was in my parked car. Another car attempted to make a u-turn. It came EXTREMELY close to mine.

I shook my head in both anger and amazement while sharing a grin with a pedestrian waiting in the crosswalk. I then deliberately looked to see how old the car’s driver was. The media’s impact on me was obvious. [more]

July 1, 2009

Check My Resume

Part of our summer program includes hiring a “handyman.” The handyman’s role is to be a liaison between the staff and our program participants. Preferably, the handyman is a former — and reformed — gang member.

Yesterday we interviewed a young man.

He finished my sentences.

I asked, “Why do you want this—”

“Job?” he said.

“What qualifies you to work­­—”

“With gang members?” he said.

“I’m certified. I’ve been a gunman since my youth.” He paused. “On the streets, my reputation speaks for itself.” [more]