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December 26, 2008
The Middle Epic
I went to the movies today to see The Curious Case of Benjamin Button. It tells a story of a man aging backwards. It was a bizarre yet remarkable movie. My Ebert and Roeper analysis is this: It’s provocative and poignant. Brad Pitt is spell-binding. It’s a 'must see.’ I give it two thumbs up.
The movie made me think about the middle of my life. I thought about the part of my life that is intermediate, the part of our lives between life beginning and death decaying. I wondered if my midpoint has been meaningful. [more]
December 24, 2008
Where is she, where is she?
On Christmas Eve I went to visit Jason. As I sat in the office waiting, I could hear him asking the clinician, "Where is she, where is she?" I stood up to hug him and I could see where a fist graced his face.
He said that he was thinking about calling me. "I was!" he said, enthusiastically, assuring me that he was thinking about me. "Tell me about Africa," he asked. [more]
December 19, 2008
Bonnie?
I took the day off from work in anticipation of a New England snowstorm. When at work, I never get to watch daytime television. So today I watched Good Morning America, then Ellen, who picked pals with Paris Hilton and premiered the Pussy Cat Dolls latest single. [more]
- Tags: TV, Snow Day, Life with Bonnie
December 8, 2008
Ten dollars
The value of ten dollars is almost valueless. President Hamilton’s bill is as cent-less as President Washington’s dollar. My daughter invited three young girls from the church in South Africa to our hotel. The resort where we stayed had plenty of fun activities for them. They swam, they bowled, they played miniature golf. [more]
December 6, 2008
I squeezed the trigger
I lifted it. My left hand on the barrel of a 9mm, my right hand tightly gripping the clip, and my index finger on the trigger. My heart is racing rapidly. “He deserves it,” I thought. He walked out of the building, and I squeezed the trigger. The bullet hit him in the head. I reloaded and squeezed again. Reloaded and squeezed yet again. I fired 243 shots and got 89 hits - 36% accuracy. Adrenaline was altering my common sense. Points are deducted when you hit an innocent victim. I hit three. [more]
- Tags: Violence, Video games, Guns
December 5, 2008
What is that smell?
I had a flashback of me as a child, sitting in our two-bedroom apartment. The smell of crack cocaine burning is deeply-rooted in my nostrils. Suddenly my son startled me and asked, “What is that smell?” It was the smell of the burning trash that lingers in the air in South Africa. “It’s just burning trash, Danny.” [more]
- Tags: South Africa, Memories, Drugs
December 4, 2008
Weak fathers
On a safari tour, the tour guide pulled up next to two rhinoceros. Not only did he stop the jeep; he also turned off the ignition. The rhinos looked at us as if they recognized the tour guide and the jeep. They didn’t seem fearful or frightened; I felt timid and terrified. I swiftly slid to left of the jeep. We saw red bishops flying, waterbucks wandering and impalas grazing. [more]
- Tags: Parenthood, Fathers
December 3, 2008
African rain
The rain drops dropped heavy, like hail, and it seemed as if there were fewer drops falling to the ground. Fewer drops, dropping harder. The rain flooded the South African highways, making the brick-red dirt look like Campbell’s tomato soup, creating drinking pools for the boundless sheep and cows. [more]
- Tags: Travel, South Africa, Rain
December 2, 2008
Lucky me
We visited the place of rest, a place where I would in no way lay my head.
The place of rest is one of many informal settlements in South Africa. The settlements look like hundreds of makeshift clubhouses. They look like my seven-year-old gathered cardboard boxes and tin and made a place to play. But there are thousands of Africans who live in the settlements. [more]
- Tags: Values, Travel, South Africa
December 1, 2008
Too...
We’re driving cars fast and furious, rushing for the train to get to work on time.
We are feeding our children pop tarts for breakfast; cereal eaten in a stick.
We are noisy, horns beeping, road rage rearing its ugly face.
We are driving though a drive-thru to get a flu shot.
We are just busy, too busy to stop and see the homeless man sitting in a corner in the train station. We run past him.
Too restless to know we need rest. Too busy to notice our business; too busy letting the small things go unseen. [more]
- Tags: Values, Modern Life
