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I'm going to use this Friday post space to gush proudly here about how L. is on his school's Battle of the Books team. A couple of months ago in the van on the way to pick up T. he casually mentioned that he had gone to a BOB informational meeting at lunch.
"Oh really?" My heart jumped. Careful, I thought. Don't be too pushy. Don't get too excited or nosey about this. Sometimes L. trying something is like coming up on a wild animal in the bushes. If you make a sound, or move too quickly, he'll scurry away quick as a flash.
But L. continued to go to the practice meetings, and he tried out for the 6th grade class team and made it! His team placed second in the finals for his school and, encouraged by this, he went on to try out for the schoolwide team. This was big. Really, really big.
And he made it!
Now he'll get to compete countywide this month, and he stays after school for practices and everything. The other night I was telling someone on the phone about his BOB success. "He decided to do it all on his own," I told my friend. After I hung up with her L., who has supersonic hearing and hears every little conversation anywhere in the house, came out of the office looking a little sheepish.
"You know," he said. "I didn't decide ALL on my own," he admitted.
"That's okay," I said. "What do you mean?"
He'd gone to the first informational meeting, he told me, because he had been looking for a way to get out of eating in the cafeteria that afternoon.
"It was hot dog day," he said. "I hate the smell of the cafeteria on hot dog day."
I had to laugh, and I grabbed at him and snuck in one quick hug before he wriggled away. "That is all on your own," I told him. No matter the reasons why, you still went for it on your own."
And I'm proud of him. I hope he's proud, too, because he so deserves to be.
Happy Friday!







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Ha! Hot dog day. Did you tell him that you would probably have to agree about the smell of hot dog day?! I'm not even a vegetarian and I can imagine that the smell of hot dogs floating in luke warm cafeteria water is not a happy smell. You should put in a suggestion that they bake bread or cinnamon rolls on hot dog day!
I will never forget the day I walked one of my students (a favorite, if I'm being honest...and a friend on the spectrum) up to Chess Club. I was so nervous that he had decided to join. It was a big HIGH SCHOOL and he was just one little guy. When I got there, I realized that he was among friends. A lot of guys similar to him and just there to play chess. I cried all the way back to my classroom. So proud and happy. I feel a little bit that way for L right now. I hope that it goes well!
Oh, thank you so much Omaha--you made me teary. It is such a big milestone, and one so many take for granted with their kids. But for MY kid--this is huge beyond measure.