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November 20, 2009

15 years ago...I make the headlines

IN "RAIDING PARTY," POLICE SWEEP CATHEDRAL
Boston; November, 1994

In a collaborative effort, police officers from several law enforcement agencies swept through the Cathedral Housing Development Tuesday, arresting about a dozen suspects believed to be involved in drug trafficking and other illegal activities. [more]

November 17, 2009

Hustling

Shizz had a customer. He spit a crack rock into his hand.
I sat nearby, in the playground.

A police cruiser stopped.
I wanted to walk away.
I had crack rocks in my mouth, underneath my tongue. [more]

November 10, 2009

The stash

I snuck into my bedroom.

I made sure my sisters weren’t around.

I took the picture off the wall.

I packed away my crack behind a poster framed picture of me rapping. [more]

November 4, 2009

Life on the unit

My cellmate, Michelle, was one of my uncle’s hoes.
He was a pimp.
She would say, "I love your uncle. But he ain’t got no stroke." [more]

October 26, 2009

My fathers

"Frankie is your father," my grandmother said.

Looking through my mother’s photo albums I found a picture of me with this man, Frankie. I’m a toddler in the photo. Frankie wears a shabby brown leather jacket and a fisherman’s hat. He holds me in his arms. I’m wearing a brown coat with rainbow colors on the sleeves, and a fisherman’s hat like his. We’re both smiling. Frankie looks like a nice guy. [more]

October 13, 2009

Cold

I ran through the projects, from crack house to crack house, looking for my mother. The day was wintry and cold.

I knocked on Mary’s door.
"Is my mother there?"
"Your mother ain't here," Mary yelled from behind the closed door.

I ran to the next building. [more]

September 22, 2009

My first crack deal

I heard my mother calling me. "Lia."
I walked into the living room. "Yes?"

"I want you to go downstairs to meet someone for me. Give her this." My mother placed a piece of crack in my hand. It was presentably packaged in a plastic sandwich bag. [more]

July 27, 2009

I choose . . .

"Sure, I know there are two ways," Greg said. "But I decide the kind of life I live. I choose."

He spoke as wisely as William Julius Wilson, as distinguished as Delbert S. Elliott. Both contributed to the book Good Kids from Bad Neighborhoods, a study which demonstrates that young people choose a lifestyle based on the availability of youth development opportunities. [more]

May 4, 2009

The World's finest chocolate

My son was overjoyed. After school he jumped into the back seat, opened his book bag and pulled out an envelope and said, “Mommy, I am selling candy; do you want to buy some?”

I remembered the World’s finest chocolate bars – caramel, almond and crispy rice. He talked so fast, his words were running over each other. “I am going to knock on doors in our building, I am going to take it to church and sell candy to the Pastor. Mommy, can you take it to work and ask your co-workers to buy some?

“You are not selling any candy,” I said.

“Why?” Lil' Danny asked. [more]

April 13, 2009

Hidden behind the high

I imagine it is easier for my mother to stay in her own world. [more]