FamilyEducation BlogsOctober 23, 2009
"I’m gonna shoot Diamond in her ass.”Diamond and Crystal were twin sisters. Big, built like men. Old as my mother. Intimidating, and they knew it. And they were crack heads. They bullied people in the projects. They hustled them. They robbed them. And no one did anything about it because they were two BIG bitches. [more] October 20, 2009
ThrillsAt the time we were having trouble with some other girls. Kendra and I walked to the community center.
August 25, 2009
“Say something positive about me at my funeral.”This is the last week of our summer program. I asked the boys how they felt about the program ending. They sat silently with their heads hung low. [more]
July 1, 2009
Check My ResumePart of our summer program includes hiring a “handyman.” The handyman’s role is to be a liaison between the staff and our program participants. Preferably, the handyman is a former — and reformed — gang member. Yesterday we interviewed a young man. He finished my sentences. I asked, “Why do you want this—” “Job?” he said. “What qualifies you to work—” “With gang members?” he said. “I’m certified. I’ve been a gunman since my youth.” He paused. “On the streets, my reputation speaks for itself.” [more]
June 9, 2009
When Kerby is oursOne afternoon in March, Kerby Revellus, 23, stabbed three of his sisters, killing two of them. The third sister, Serafina, survives with nightmares she doesn’t want to talk about. This story is heartrending. It is a narrative that never should’ve been told, a plot we never should’ve read. This morning, a Boston Globe article sought to explore what may have led to Kerby murdering his two sisters. I wish I could rewrite its end. [more] June 8, 2009
The Diary of a Wimpy Kid. . . and Secondary TraumaFifteen black and Latino men sat in a half circle, taking notes as I spoke about the core competencies demanded by street work. "To build relationships with proven-risk, gang-involved youth, you must fulfill your promise." I thought about the boys, then continued. "If you commit to being involved in their lives, never promise anything you can’t deliver." I quoted Fredrick Thrasher, the "Godfather of Gang Research." [more]
May 10, 2009
To Terminate at Will“Employees-at-will,” the professor said, “What does that term really mean?” The class sat silently. The question was rhetorical, I assumed. “We are going to watch a video,” he said. He pressed play. The video gave examples of employees-at-will principles. Can an employer really terminate you at will? “For any reason, or for no reason at all,” I thought. [more]
April 27, 2009
Fashion, Art, and ButtonsFashion is like Vincent Van Gogh’s painting, “Sunflowers.” The painting expresses a characteristic style – “bold use of color and composition.” Likewise, fashion frames one’s persona – clothes, shoes, accessories, hair, and (even) cell phones paint a portrait. Fashion, like art, varies depending on the artist. [more] April 26, 2009
Sun, Sirens, and MurderI sat, parked outside a Jamaican restaurant, looking forward to a curry shrimp dinner with white rice and mixed vegetables. A young black man walked down the street. He wore discolored blue jeans and a grey sweater. His Afro hair was a mess, nappy and uncombed. [more]
April 20, 2009
Pre-planned funerals!A land mine was triggered on Thursday when the Massachusetts House of Representative released its proposed budget. I easily pictured youth bleeding, their skin ripped and punctured by our representatives’ fatal ball point pens. The ground trembled. Graves gaped. I remembered the lost lives. [more]
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